Moving On Is A Difficult Decision, But…

Moving on is a difficult decision one has to make a few times in life. You can try to hold on to people who have walked away from you, or you can choose to create a dignified life for yourself. You can carry your mistakes with you, or you can choose to learn new things to better yourself. Eventually, moving on has nothing to do with people or what happened in the past. It has everything to do with how you REBUILD your life from this moment on.Dodinsky

Man building a road


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Posted on February 15, 2015, in Quotes and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 11 Comments.

  1. Amen! It isn’t ever about thinking you’re better than someone! It is truly about just wanting and doing better. Making better choices for yourself, people you love with a passion, and the freedom to live your passion within yourself! My mistakes matter, they do, I just choose to learn from them. My choices matter, they do, it made me the better “you” I am. I will fall down like I have so many times, I will continue to get up too after I pray my way through whatever put me there again. I truly just want to be, in the moment, and in the NOW! Seems like it took me FOREVER ….. now I can do Forever! I will always want and be happy I am ME. Me knows what’s best :-). And Me knows what is beautiful happiness and ME IS NOW ADDICTED!!! The work will never end… the end won’t ever be work …. I choose to believe, embrace, and know this! Others will choose not to, I respect their choice. I expect to be respected for mine too! Making me feel guilty those that don’t, will never be an excuse not TO!

  2. Exactly where I find myself in Life after the loss of my Dad. Beautiful post and I do thank you for the encouragement!!! Bless you. Love, Amy

  3. Exactly where I am too! Thx for this 🙂

  4. Tyra (Random Acts of Snark)

    Reblogged this on Random Acts of Snark.

  5. I agree, moving on may be a hard task due to how familiar some of our habits may be. But in the long run it’s definitely the better choice for us all. Check out my new blog and see if you agree with what we have to say.


  7. I’m an advocate for allowing yourself some time alone before moving on to something or someone else. We all need some time for personal refletion.

  8. Fromtheheartofit

    Addicted to me is good and bad. It’s not alone that these lives we live as adults came into focus. Sadly enough as human beings we learn more emphatically about ourselves from the negative experiences that we have encountered. The circumstances and people that stretch our limits the most, positive or negative, will trigger the most personal growth. In a vacuum where connections to other people are absent we would literally be idiots about how our inward feelings translate to others. There is no subsistute for the learning that occurs when we emotionally connect with another person. If we are closed we are done. Without each other we are blind to our own bs! It’s knowing who you are and what matters to you no matter who you find yourself with that determines the outcome of each relationship. Sacrificing too much is not a badge of honor its a pit of spikes that we inadvertently placed in the future to impale ourselves upon.

    Know thy self while truly knowing others! Speaking up for your needs can create the necessary balance for a healthy relationship. Be it friend, family or lover.

    Give too much and we find ourselves getting less and less in return.

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