This dad gets anonymous note from stranger while spending time with daughter

Dear Fellow Human Beings,

This morning, at her request, I took our 9-year-old daughter to a coffee shop. She brought with her a little crocheting activity; I brought the newspaper, a notebook & pen, and my phone.

This was going to be an outing not unlike others we’d had before: while sitting at the same table, we’d do our own things — she’d keep herself occupied with something, and I’d catch-up on emails, organize my week, get work done, etc. Sound familiar?

Today, she made one additional request: “Daddy, can you not read the paper or doodle or check email today? Can we just be together?”

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I’m not trying to be melodramatic; that was her question. So today, we were together. She showed me her yarn project. I recalled the day she was born.

We compared notes about whether or not couples at other tables were on “dates” (she likes to impersonate people on dates — resting her smiling face on her hand and practicing a starry-eyed stare).

She told me about her friends and their hamsters. I watched her chew her breakfast sandwich and melted a little bit as I thought about how much I love her. I wished it hadn’t taken her past experience and her courageous reaching out for me to give her the attention she so wanted and needed.

Before we left, I went up to the counter to order a take-out snack for her brother. When I returned to our table, there was a note, left face-down, in front of my seat.

My daughter told me that a woman, before leaving the coffee shop, had asked her if I was her father and said that the message was for me.

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I looked around (nobody was there) and flipped over the paper to find the words below. This anonymous message was enough of a reinforcement for me, that I hope more people might be guided by its power and by its author’s thoughtfulness.:

“I work at a school where many daughters don’t have fathers & those who do have never in their lives had him watch and listen and devote 100% of his attention to her for as long as you did on one Sunday morning.

You have no idea what a gift you are giving to all the teachers who are responsible for educating her from now until she graduates.”

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Please don’t wait for your child or other loved one to plead for your attention like mine did — he or she might not.

Expect that no one will leave a note for you — such beauty in this world is far too rare.

I invite you to share the gift of this experience with me: choose to be present today — even for just a little while — for someone you love. If you see it happen somewhere, consider leaving a note — it sure does leave an impression.

Note: This was originally posted by David Rosenman on Facebook and took a life of its own. It has inspired thousands, let us keep the flame of inspiration going — PASS IT ON.

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